You know what they say..

You know what they say...

It takes about 2-3 years to fully understand someone. 

So what are the odds of truely knowing someone way before the 2-3 years mark? 

You know what they say...

It is essential for a couple to quarrel once in a while, just so to really understand your partner. 

So if you barely quarrel with your partner, does it mean that you have something to be worried about?

You know what they say...

You'll always have to put in effort into maintaining a relationship. Make things interesting once in a while or else the spark dies off eventually. 

These "you know what they say" worries me from time to time. Thus I took a step back and think as there will always be two sides to the story. What if some true soulmates out there takes less than 2 years to fully know their partner? What if the couple doesn't quarrel much due to tramatizing, full of quarreling past relationships that they've had? 

There are ought to have many 'if', 'how', and 'why' questions revolving around theories of the universe. Yet, some of us still don't get most of the answers that we are looking for. So stop for a second and think. Is this worth worrying over? If your answer is no, move on because the carousel never stops turning. 

A conversation with bae sparked my train of thoughts and thus this blogpost. 

If I lay here, if I just lay here. Would you lie with me and just forget the world?

Life

It has been long since I've last blogged. I know that. I've been busy with school (okay not really), hanging out with my best buds and of course with my very own boy.  Due to my previous relationship, I've lost contact with more than half of my friends. Now that I'm back on track, I'll be busier than ever catching up with every single one of them. I'm really blessed to have my freedom and most importantly, my life back. You know what they say?
"Life is short, live life to the fullest."

So to whomever out there who is stuck in an unhappy relationship or friendship, get out of it. Move on. You deserve someone better. We are humans, humans are social beings. Friends, kin, spouse, soul mates, are what keep us motivated and blessed to live by the days.

I can't even remember the last time I've blogged to be honest. But this time round I'm back to rant again. Good rants of course. I've been together with this boy for a year plus and my time spent with him passes by in a blink of an eye. Smiles  and laughter strongly overpower our frowns and tears in a ratio of 1000:1. That's how happy I am. That's how happy we are. I'm glad that he's the one. I'm contented with just him being in my life. No regrets.

No doubt, nobody knows what the future hold. It will slowly unfold itself eventually. Nonetheless, it's the every moment spent together that counts. I would say that I'm fortunate enough to to meet Aomy. He never fail me make me laugh every single day. I'm not even kidding. That's crazy you might think. How is that even possible? Let's just say that I laugh at the slightest things  and he simply knows how to make me happy.

I misses him everyday and I can't wait to see him tomorrow already. Eventhough we just met for dinner just now. #dramatic
I love you Aomy.


Ps: exams are around the corner. School sucks. I need sleep. I need alcohol. I just finished my CNY shopping. I need more money. Basically sums up my life.